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djDMS
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 Posted - 2009/05/19 : 18:43:56
Not even the worst job in the world ever could ever be enough to make anybody contemplate suicide!
Trouble is, when you're sad/depressed or just generally pissed off it's all too easy to see everything as bad regardless of the seriousness.
'Life's what you make it' might be a bit of a cliche but it does make sense in most cases.
Not happy with things - change them
People upset you - avoid them
If you are as good at your job and as hard working as you say you'll find something else easily enough - and different can be just as effective as better.
Just take time to look at positives as well as negatives - they're all around you if you WANT to find them.
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Hard2Get
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Posted - 2009/05/19 : 18:45:03
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Originally posted by djDMS:
Not even the worst job in the world ever could ever be enough to make anybody contemplate suicide!
Trouble is, when you're sad/depressed or just generally pissed off it's all too easy to see everything as bad regardless of the seriousness.
'Life's what you make it' might be a bit of a cliche but it does make sense in most cases.
Not happy with things - change them
People upset you - avoid them
If you are as good at your job and as hard working as you say you'll find something else easily enough - and different can be just as effective as better.
Just take time to look at positives as well as negatives - they're all around you if you WANT to find them.
Lol, a much more concise version of what i wrote :P
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kathryn
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Posted - 2009/05/19 : 20:13:42
MP's claiming all the expense's is really  annoying and depressing.
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kathryn
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Posted - 2009/05/19 : 20:16:33
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Originally posted by Vitalism:
don't know what good it's going to do complaining about it here, but i am just so depressed by my job and must vent.
i work at a liquor store, every weekend and holiday including my own birthday, xmas, new years...
the people i have to deal with just suck the life energy out of me.
i feel sometimes like i'm the only one who ever does any work there, and way more than my fair share and still only make $10 an hour.
i am SOOOO god damn sick of working there, i honestly consider suicide every time i have to set foot in there.
it just sucks so much, when i was a kid, i couldn't wait to be an adult. now that i'm here, i honestly feel like shit 95% of the time. i want more money at my job, but that's not going to do much.
i just hate feeling like this. i'm a hard worker, but does anyone notice? do i get remunerated properly?
argh. i'm just frustrated, that's all. and i wish there were other jobs, but there's nothing out there.
can anyone else here relate? all i can say is fu.ck this economic downturn that's going on. everyone is fu. cking cheaping out and charging more, and i'm the one left with the short end of the stick.
just makes me want to deal drugs full time for a living. at least i wouldn't have to put up with this shit everytime i have to go in to work.
I could understand you contemplating suicide if you had a terminal illness but you have a healthy life don't like your job get a new 1. If you cant find paid work straight away do some voluntary work.
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Triquatra
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Posted - 2009/05/19 : 20:55:50
stephen fry doesnt think the expenses row is that important...
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/programmes/newsnight/8045869.stm
was kind of surprised to see the liberal media actual try and give stephen some bad press
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Vitalism
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Posted - 2009/05/20 : 00:27:04
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Originally posted by latininxtc:
if u seriously hate the place that much and feel like killing urself every time u step foot in there, then leave. seems like all ur rant is focused on your job. and i kno that u got bills to pay and stuff and u need a job, but obviously this job is taking a toll on u. there are jobs ou9t there u just got to look for them.
i worked at a dept store for 5 years and honestly i did hate almost every minute of it. but i knew how to set aside my disgust for the job long enough to realize that i needed it to pay my bills and save $$$ for school. so if you can't seriously set aside your hatred for the job enough to realize that it does pay bills, then leave. besides i'm sure that ur coworkers find you an annoying twat anyways because it soulds like you would be the type of person to complain and whine about it to your coworkers. grow up this is adulthood we have higher responsibilities than kids now
actually i'm the nicest and hardest working there, considering i have 3 co-workers BESIDES the owners. i've been told this numerous times by customers so you couldn't be more wrong. i don't complain about anything while i'm at the job either, all i say all day is "yes sir, no sir..." and do every thing i am told.
it sounds to me like you are being a condescending jerk who thinks he knows something about someone. which is probably what your coworkers say about you.
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Hard2Get
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Posted - 2009/05/20 : 00:39:04
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Originally posted by DjTriquatra:
stephen fry doesnt think the expenses row is that important...
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/programmes/newsnight/8045869.stm
was kind of surprised to see the liberal media actual try and give stephen some bad press
What a legend.
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kawaiietly please
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Posted - 2009/05/20 : 03:14:45
SOUNDS LIKE SOMEONE NEEDS TO CRANK UP THE MUSIC!!!!!! There are always things to get upset about... but isn't that why we cram beats into our ears at 180+BPMs?
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Blackcrow
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Posted - 2009/05/20 : 13:26:38
Here is a funny, lighthearted, interactive flash movie to cheer you up and help you move on:
http://www.flashring.com/content/stick/sgames/stickfiguresuicide.shtml
I LOL'd so hard, when drove his car, he ran out of gas, and almost didn't make anywhere near the cliff.
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Lilley
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Posted - 2009/05/20 : 15:15:19
wow. i havent seen that for at least 6 years. hmm. stickdeath is better
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TheOneNOnly
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Posted - 2009/05/21 : 02:08:56
What kind of job makes you want to kill yourself?
Seriously.
Fuk that shit.
I've never worked at a job where I thought I wanted to kill myself every time I stepped into it. Everyone, well almost everyone, has had a job they hated. Where they wanted to quit, but didn't. That's determination to want to get money to do better, and get above everyone else. But never, ever, have I heard of someone who wanted to physically hurt themself over a job.
Screw that crap. Look for another job, anything. Contact your friends and see if they know anyone. Networking is the NUMBER ONE key to getting anywhere in life. You don't get to the top not knowing the top of the top of the top of a company that can get you deals on things.
How many artists do you see selling millions of albums from their basement? I don't see any... They contacted people, record companies, and began shipping out their products. You go no where in this world without knowing people. Even if you HATE the person, keeping in contact can always lead to a new job.
A better job.
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latininxtc
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Posted - 2009/05/21 : 03:33:30
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Originally posted by Vitalism:
actually i'm the nicest and hardest working there, considering i have 3 co-workers BESIDES the owners. i've been told this numerous times by customers so you couldn't be more wrong. i don't complain about anything while i'm at the job either, all i say all day is "yes sir, no sir..." and do every thing i am told.
so then do something about it. you can't be "nice" bout things all the time. sometimes you have to be aggressive to get what you want. if you feel mistreated or overused, then speak up. don't be a mindless employee that is being taken advantage up simply because you let it. because you are letting it. and the other coworkers are taking full advantage of that. i sure as hell dealt with a lot of crap at my dept job of 5 years and realized if i don't stand up for my own rights, no one else will.
so basically you have two choices: do something about it before you really do kill yourself, or leave
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Blackcrow
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Posted - 2009/05/21 : 10:08:29
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Originally posted by Vitalism:
don't know what good it's going to do complaining about it here, but i am just so depressed by my job and must vent.
i work at a liquor store, every weekend and holiday including my own birthday, xmas, new years...
the people i have to deal with just suck the life energy out of me.
i feel sometimes like i'm the only one who ever does any work there, and way more than my fair share and still only make $10 an hour.
i am SOOOO god damn sick of working there, i honestly consider suicide every time i have to set foot in there.
it just sucks so much, when i was a kid, i couldn't wait to be an adult. now that i'm here, i honestly feel like shit 95% of the time. i want more money at my job, but that's not going to do much.
i just hate feeling like this. i'm a hard worker, but does anyone notice? do i get remunerated properly?
argh. i'm just frustrated, that's all. and i wish there were other jobs, but there's nothing out there.
can anyone else here relate? all i can say is fu.ck this economic downturn that's going on. everyone is fu. cking cheaping out and charging more, and i'm the one left with the short end of the stick.
just makes me want to deal drugs full time for a living. at least i wouldn't have to put up with this shit everytime i have to go in to work
4 Question i have to ask you Vitalism are:
I'm ONLY asking you these question, IN CONTEXT, with this thread, because your bitching about your life.
1. How many friends do you have.
2. How many qualifications do you have, and what are your grades
3. Do you, and can you you afford to drive.
4. Are you a homeowner?
I am in roughly the same boat as you, by your description, so i have to say your problems seem prety fu<king insignificant to me.
Its weird how its hard to feel empathy with someone who is in roughly the same position as you, as you think to yourself coldly "JOIN THE CLUB"
You'd think it would have the opposite effect.
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charlieee
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Posted - 2009/05/21 : 11:00:37
yeh a bit reason being
1)org chem assignment due on mon
2)chem min final exam wed
3)org and analytical chem final exam on the same day with only a 50 min break in between (each exam is 3 hours.
4) cant got out cause i have to much uni work and not enough money lol
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Lilley
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Posted - 2009/05/21 : 11:48:14
Pretty much agreeing with the others. Its a job, your getting money. not many people particularly like their job, its not like your the only one.
I have one friend who legitimately has depression, and has a good reason for it. she was raped 9 months ago and has had one hell of a ****ed up year since then. but no, she's not dead, and she's actually trying to get help and get better. Get over yourself and get on with it.
"i want to kill myself because i have a job and im getting paid".
HTFU.
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